Author: yourassissandy

On Monday 10/19 we lost our beloved doggo Fatty. He developed a perineal hernia and would have required a surgery to save his life but would only be temporary. We made the painful choice of putting him down. He was the bestest of best good boys. He was almost human in his expressions. You could […]

First of all, I am not going to kill myself. I know that’s a morbid title so I just want it out of the way. So yesterday was Valentine’s Day, the stupidest holiday of the year. I have been single for a really long time, mostly by choice, a little because the pickins is slim. […]

Ruth Bader Ginsburg died. I cried, many times, not able to articulate why her death affected me so deeply, I just cried. The Notorious RBG is gone. She was a hero to many but labeled a political activist by others. She was not an activist, she was a jurist. She interpreted the laws of this […]

I swear to god, this pandemic… I mean for reals what the fuck????? I have been home now since March, almost 5 full months of BLAH. I am still working but now I just make phone calls and do shit I hate so I am looking for another job becuase I can’t do this anymore. […]

Being alive is a heavy burden sometimes. Many things pile upon your shoulders and we all have our struggles. I am going to say that women have it harder than men, always. The expectations of and on us are far greater. We have to be all the things and what I have learned is one […]

Okay so it was a Tuesday. I did not kill anyone, I did not yell. I wasn’t even all that angry, probably because i was sick AF yesterday from chugging pork fat Sunday (I made carnitas, they were good, pork fat is everything, I know it was wrong). But today I was mellow. As I […]

Here I sit on a Friday night trying to write a blog post about how angry I am. Seems lame. But let me tell you, after talking to friends and family, we are all angry. I will start here; I was so angry this Tuesday past, I made a brochure about my anger. Title: Angry […]